So, I found myself re-reading The Odyssey the other week. Not for any class, just, you know, because. And this time, something really jumped out at me – the women. I mean, they’re always there, but I guess I never really sat down and properly thought about them all together, as a whole bunch, you know?
My Little Project: Listing Them Out
I actually started making a list. Sounds a bit nerdy, I know. But I just wanted to get my head straight. You’ve got Penelope, obviously. Holding down the fort for like, twenty years. That’s a whole saga in itself, isn’t it? Then there’s Circe, the sorceress. And Calypso, who keeps Odysseus on her island. Even Nausicaa, who just has that brief but pretty important encounter with him. Oh, and you can’t forget Helen, even if her main story is in The Iliad, her shadow looms large. And by extension, Clytemnestra, Agamemnon's wife – her story is a stark warning in the background.
It was like laying out a deck of cards. Each one different. I started thinking, what was Homer trying to do with all these different female figures? It’s not just one type of woman, that’s for sure. You've got the super loyal, clever wife. Then you’ve got these powerful, almost divine women who can hold a hero captive. Then there are the younger, innocent ones, and the ones who are seen as trouble-makers.

What really got me was the variety of power, or lack of it.
- Penelope: She’s stuck, right? But she uses her wits, that whole weaving and unweaving trick. That's a kind of power, a clever resistance.
- Circe and Calypso: They have actual magic, or goddess-like status. They can literally stop Odysseus in his tracks. But even they seem a bit lonely, or bound by their own nature.
- Nausicaa: She’s more about potential, societal expectations. She helps Odysseus, but it's all within the rules of her society.
- The Sirens, Scylla: Monstrous, dangerous. Definitely powerful in a terrifying way.
It felt like Homer was painting this whole spectrum. It wasn’t just "good women" and "bad women." It was more complicated. They all had their own motivations, their own stories, even if Odysseus’s story was the main event.
Then It Got Me Thinking About Something Else...
This whole process of looking at these ancient characters reminded me of this one time, a few years back. I was working on this community project, trying to get a local history archive off the ground. Super low budget, mostly volunteers. There was this older lady, Mrs. Gable, who used to come in. Quiet, mostly kept to herself, made tea for everyone. A lot of the younger, louder folks, myself included if I'm honest, kind of overlooked her. We were all busy trying to be "innovative" and "dynamic."
Well, turns out Mrs. Gable had lived in that town her entire life. She knew everyone, knew where all the old photos were probably stashed, who had diaries from their grandparents. We were struggling to get primary sources, hitting brick walls. One day, she just quietly mentioned, "You know, old Mr. Henderson's attic is probably full of stuff from the old mill. His daughter lives over in an_other_town now, but I have her number."
Boom. Just like that. She opened up like, three or four major avenues for us that we’d completely missed because we just saw her as the "tea lady." We'd been so focused on the "heroes" of the project, the ones making presentations and writing proposals, that we missed the quiet power and knowledge right under our noses. It made me feel like a bit of an idiot, actually.

And that’s kind of how I felt looking at the women in the Odyssey this time. For so long, you hear about Odysseus and his amazing journey, his cleverness, his strength. And yeah, that's all true. But then you look closer, and you see Penelope's endurance, Circe's transformative power (good and bad), Athena’s constant meddling and guidance. They're not just background characters. They’re shaping the story, they’re driving parts of it, they’re the challenges and the safe havens.
So yeah, that was my little journey with it. No grand academic thesis, just me, a copy of the book, and a bit of a realization that there's always more to see if you just shift your focus a little. Makes you wonder what else we're all missing when we only look at the headline acts.