Alright, so I got to thinking about the women in the Odyssey the other day. You hear all sorts of stuff, usually the same old story, right? Odysseus is the main man, the hero, going on his big ten-year trip, and the women? Well, they're kinda just… there. Or they're problems for him to solve.
My Initial Thoughts & What Everyone Says
You know the drill. People talk about Calypso and Circe, and usually, it's about how they're these enchantresses trying to keep Odysseus from his journey. Calypso, the one who supposedly just wanted to keep him on her island. Circe, the one turning dudes into pigs. Sounds pretty straightforward, like they’re just part of the obstacle course.
And then there's Penelope, poor Penelope, back home, supposedly just being the loyal, submissive wife, fending off those annoying suitors. The classic picture is always men being the tough guys, the ones in charge, and women are either helping them quietly or causing trouble.

So, I Decided to Actually Dig In
I got a bit fed up with these flat descriptions. It felt like there had to be more to it. So, I pulled out my copy of the Odyssey and decided to read it again, but this time, my whole focus was on the female characters. What did they actually do? What were their stories, beyond how they affected Odysseus?
What I Found Out – It’s Not So Simple
And man, it was interesting. Let's take Calypso. Yes, she kept Odysseus for ages. But the story also says she rescued him. His ship was a wreck, his crew wiped out – Zeus had zapped them after they messed with Helios’s sun cattle, even after Circe had warned them. So, Calypso saves his life. Then, yeah, she wants him to stay. But when the gods tell her to let him go, she doesn't just roll over. She argues! And then she actually helps him build his raft and gives him supplies. So, not just a simple villain, see?
Then there’s Circe. Okay, turning men into pigs? Definitely hostile. No arguments there. Odysseus has to outsmart her. But once he does, what happens? She doesn’t stay his enemy. She hosts him and his crew for a whole year! And more importantly, she gives him super critical advice for the rest of his journey – how to deal with the Sirens, Scylla, and Charybdis. Without her help, he'd have been dead meat. So, friendly or hostile? Kinda both, really.
And Penelope! Everyone paints her as just patiently waiting. But think about it. She was under huge pressure from all those suitors. What did she do? That whole trick with weaving the burial shroud for Laertes during the day and then secretly unravelling it at night to delay choosing a new husband? That’s not passive! That’s clever. That’s active resistance. And when Odysseus finally comes back, she doesn’t just fall into his arms. She tests him to make sure it’s really him. Smart cookie.
It wasn't just these main women either. You have Athena, a powerful goddess, totally involved, pulling strings, making plans. She's hardly submissive or nurturing in the traditional sense; she's a warrior and a strategist.

My Takeaway From All This
So, after going through it all again with this focus, I realized these women are way more complex than the usual summaries give them credit for. They weren't just side characters or simple archetypes. They had their own power, their own motives, and they made their own choices – sometimes good, sometimes bad, sometimes a mix.
It's not just "men are strong, women are weak/supportive." It's much more jumbled up than that, which, to be honest, makes the whole story a lot richer. You just gotta look a little closer than the usual hero-focused summary.